Support & safety
If anyone in your home makes you feel afraid, threatens you, controls where you go or what you spend, or hurts you, that's not a chores problem, and an app shouldn't be in the middle of it. Please reach out to people who can help:
- If you are in immediate danger, call your local emergency number (112 in Türkiye and the EU, 911 in the US).
- Find a helpline near you (international directory)
- US National Domestic Violence Hotline
- UK National Domestic Abuse Helpline
- Türkiye: ALO 183 Social Support Line
Bothwise is not therapy
It helps with agreements about shared responsibilities. It can't replace a counsellor or therapist. If things feel stuck or heavy, a couples or individual therapist can help. If you're thinking about harming yourself, contact a crisis line now via findahelpline.com.
Your data
You can leave a household at any time from Me. Leaving deletes your private answers and your Partner Model. Your data is never used to train AI models.