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Agree on who owns what, then see it from their side.

Bothwise helps people who share a life make clear agreements about shared responsibilities, keep to them without nagging, and understand how the other person sees them.

Answer privately

You each say who does what. Nothing shows until you both finish. Then you see it together.

Agree in writing

Owner, what "done" means, when, and when to look again. It's in force once you both accept.

No nagging

Reminders go to the owner only. No scores, no streaks, no proof photos.

Partner Lens

Careful guesses about how they might see it, and a question you can ask them.

Keep it on your home screen

Bothwise is a web app: no app store needed. Add it to your home screen and it opens like any other app.

iPhone or iPad

  1. Open bothwise.app in Safari.
  2. Tap Share (the square with an arrow). On newer iPhones it's in the ••• menu.
  3. Tap Add to Home Screen, then Add.

Android

  1. Open bothwise.app in Chrome.
  2. Tap the ⋮ menu at the top.
  3. Tap Install app (or Add to Home screen), then Install.

Bothwise then opens from its own icon, full screen, like any app.